Hello.

I'm looking for wise words from people potentially going through the same horrendous scenario as myself.

My father was diagnosed with cancer around two years ago and underwent chemo. It was a difficult time for the family but he completed it and we stayed positive. Around 8 weeks ago he had an operation to remove his tumour and the surgeons said it was successful and the tumour was all removed. Unfortunately despite this, he was not recovering. 

We found out on Friday that it has spread to his liver and he has merely a month left. We've gone from thinking everything was okay to a complete whirlwind in a few weeks.

I'm due to get married next year and I am absolutely devastated. I worry about my mum, I worry about never being able to cope with this and I honestly have no idea whether there will ever be a bright side