Hi I'm so sorry to hear of your poor dad, yes at at such a young age. I feel his pain and yours. My dad died 3 weeks ago from pancreatic cancer which he only found out he had 3 weeks earlier after being unwell for a few weeks. We are all in shock still. He couldn't accept it and died suffering as he wouldn't have pain relief, he was angry and didn't really want us round. It's so hard seeing someone you love dying and knowing they don't want to die is heartbreaking. Give him lots of love and talk about happy memories. Your not being selfish and I still have unanswered questions so we all feel like that. You also need someone you can talk, cry and let your feelings out to as its not good to hold it in. I hope you get as long as possible with your dad which I didn't with mine. Sending you hugs xx

Thank you for your reply. I'm sorry for your loss of your dad and I'm glad he is now at rest and free from pain. I have an amazing husband who is doing great looking after me and my mum. Although I'm a little worried for her when the time comes.. dad's all mums know since she was 16 and they have built a very strong life with each other over the last 30 years. Thanks kyou for your kind words and I will cherish every day I have with him xxx

Thank you for your reply. I'm sorry for your loss of your dad and I'm glad he is now at rest and free from pain. I have an amazing husband who is doing great looking after me and my mum. Although I'm a little worried for her when the time comes.. dad's all mums know since she was 16 and they have built a very strong life with each other over the last 30 years. Thanks kyou for your kind words and I will cherish every day I have with him xxx