Sylvia

My husband died 9 wk ago  my kids are very good  but life isnt the same  now i miss him so much  i just wish he could come back  and let me know he is ok 

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  • Chris, thank you so much for your kind words and thoughtfulness remembering Sam's anniversary. It was an emotional day spent with family and friends it was nice to hear people talk about Sam. I will be thinking of you next Sunday. I would quite like a dog but nobody to look after it whilst I'm at work they are such good company. Sending love to you take care Debbie xxxxx

  • Hi Debbie, not heard off you im a while i saw what you posted to Jules and Chris , im glad everything went well at sams memorial its nice to remember and talk about the ones we love.its the first xmas without my hubby  its going to be hard for me and the kids ,i think we are going to my sons for xmas it will be just a quite dinner for the three of us im not sure if my Daughters partner will be with us.hope to hear off you  take care Syl x

  • Hi Syl, yes thank you I managed to get through the anniversary but was feeling quite under the weather the week before and the week after, think I may have been a bit run down. Xmas will be hard, I feel like it is My first Christmas without Sam, don't remember much about last year I think I was in a state of shock. I will probably go to my sisters. How are you at the moment are you managing to keep busy? Love and hugs Debbie xxxxx

  • Hi Debbie, im having  a few health problems at the moment , got to go for a CT scan Friday having breathing troubles  ,im in hospital wednesday to have fluid drained from my ear, its awful  going to hospital on your own at least hubby had me i dont like asking the kids as they have to work .think me and the kids ars having  a quite xmas dinner just the three of us then we will go to the crem in the afternoon to put flowers on my mum and dads plot, and put flowers in a vase for hubby. im not in the mood  to do anything at the moment  im a  born pessimist so am  worried about the scan as hubby had lung cancer.sorry to sound  a bit morbid but thats  me all over lol take care Syl x

  • Syl,

    So sorry to hear about your health issues I hope everything turns out ok, I can totally understand how hard it must be going through this without hubby.  We are always here for you to offload anytime.  Sending love and best wishes Debbie xxxxxxx

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