My father died 13 days ago. We are not yet prepared and its very hard to accept the fact the he's already gone. 1 month after he was diagnosed to Stage IV lung cancer my father suddenly became weak
Hi so sorry to hear your news. My dad passed away 4 weeks ago from lung cancer also. It was very quick - the only bit of advice I can give you is have your family around you - people say it gets easier.. truthfully ifs not any easier. But look after yourself!!!
Sorry to read about your recent loss. With regard to what you said about it getting easier Nicole, I dont think we ever really get over losing a parent, but in time we do learn to live with our loss. I have to be honest though sometimes, It gets harder before that happens as we come to realize the enormity of our loss.
If it's any conselation, I do believe when we lose a parent, a little bit of them lives on inside of us. I have inherited several good things both from my father and my mother. I find sometimes I will say or do things and realize, it's just what my mother would have said or done. I find it comforting for I feel she is still guiding me through life if that makes any sense.
Take care both of you, and please stay in contact, Brian.
We are so sorry to hear your father passed away 13 days ago and so soon after diagnosis. It must all be a real shock to you. All of us at Cancer Chat would like to send you and your family our sincere condolences.
We are all there for you anytime of the day or night if you need to talk to someone. So many of our lovely forum members have lost a loved one and know exactly how you are feeling at the moment.
So sorry about your fathers death its such a horrible thing which everyone on this webpage have suffered. The only advide i can give you is take one day at a time and i promise it will get better. -Diane x
