So sorry :-( we're at about the same time, they found my dad's cancer at the end of March in A&E, he was given days in april, then weeks in May, then days again, we cared for him at home, he was hard, he had broken his spine in two places too :-( we lost him on the 27th August, I honestly can't believe he's gone, it has't sunk in yet, but for my mum it has, not sure what to do for her.

So sorry again 

dear justme2  sorry about your dad i lost my mum to ovarian cancer last december she only lasted three weeks in hospital since leaving our house to go there, we thought it was a stomach virus. but when she had the scan it turned out she had late stage four ovarian cancer, its a cancer that stays silent in its early stages and you do not carry any symptoms untill the dam cancer has advanced where its too late, mum did not get any treatment because the cancer had spread too far and it was hard to watchv her deteriote over the three weeks until she passed on the 27 december,mum had already been in remission from early stage breast cancer since 2011, was lucky then it had not spread, but at the end of the day the cancer always wins it way back, nearly ten months on i still find it hard and i do not know how long its going to take to get  over her, it seems nothing can be  worse losing parents, i lost my dad also to a heart attack when i was just nineteen he was only 47, mum was 74, it feels weird parentless but have to rely on three sisters now for support, hope you get the support you need to over come your loss,take care oggi

dear justme2  sorry about your dad i lost my mum to ovarian cancer last december she only lasted three weeks in hospital since leaving our house to go there, we thought it was a stomach virus. but when she had the scan it turned out she had late stage four ovarian cancer, its a cancer that stays silent in its early stages and you do not carry any symptoms untill the dam cancer has advanced where its too late, mum did not get any treatment because the cancer had spread too far and it was hard to watchv her deteriote over the three weeks until she passed on the 27 december,mum had already been in remission from early stage breast cancer since 2011, was lucky then it had not spread, but at the end of the day the cancer always wins it way back, nearly ten months on i still find it hard and i do not know how long its going to take to get  over her, it seems nothing can be  worse losing parents, i lost my dad also to a heart attack when i was just nineteen he was only 47, mum was 74, it feels weird parentless but have to rely on three sisters now for support, hope you get the support you need to over come your loss,take care oggi

You've really gone through so much oggi, I'm so sorry x

dear justme2  thanks for your reply i am just trying to get thorugh this first year, but it is going to be hard this december has it is going to bring it all back. oggi