Not sure if I'm on the right website or not , but reading the posts people have sent breaks my heart , but in a way helps, 

I've been looking after full time, my parents, both with dementia , mum vascular , dad mixed. I work full time, have carers come in from when I'm at work. Dad had permanent catheter and bowel incontinent  soo got to  stage i was more anxious. I got help, took time off work and cared for my parents full time, and obvs there's more going off , not just there personal care ,  but keeping their home n garden up to par type thing. Thank goodness for my younger brother  absolute angel, anyway, Dad went through a lot, went into hospital again blah blah, but enough is enough, he wanted to come back home. It was arranged for his 92nd birthday. Carers, me and my brother would provide 24 hr care,  

Mum didn't and still doesn't understand.

We got Dad home,  my niece came over to give me a break she said go get fresh air  

I said to Dad  who was now on the meds stuff, I'm going for tea bags back in 5 

Wasn't gone 2 minutes , she phoned me come back

He'd gone