Struggling with the loss of my dad. Feeling lonely and have no one to talk to

I lost my dad in February this year after been diagnosed last December with bone and lung cancer. I am just struggling so much nothing seems or feels right. I have 2 amazing children who I get up for everyday and smile but I'm tired of getting up and faking my smile everyday. I am married but my partner doesn't care he is very much about himself and I dont feel connected to him this started before my dads death. I guess I am lonely which is making the grieving harder as I feel I have no one to talk to. 

  • Welcome to the Cancer Chat forum Saddaughter81 although I'm very sorry to hear about your dad's passing earlier this year. You have my heartfelt condolences for your loss.

    Coping with grief can be extremely difficult, and overwhelming at times, especially when you feel disconnected from those around you and have no one to share your feelings with, but you've taken a very big and important step by reaching out to us Saddaughter81 and I'm glad you did as so many of our members will understand what you are going through, so you are not alone Saddaughter81, and I'm sure it won't be long until some of them stop by to share their experiences and advice.

    If you feel like you're really struggling at the moment though, please reach out to your GP for support and advice. There are also bereavement charities such as Cruse and Sue Ryder who will be able to support you and help you work through your grief as well.

    No doubt there will a lot more challenges along the way Saddaughter81, but I hope it helps to know that our community are here for you and will do all they can to support you along the way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator