Hi there, I lost my wonderful mum 5 weeks ago. She was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer which spread to her liver and lungs and passed away 3 weeks after her diagnosis. My mum has been my rock and has always been there and supportive through my whole life. I have 3 amazing children 16, 12 and 5 and a husband of 26 years. I feel my husband isn’t being as supportive as I thought he would be. Weve had a few marriage problems in the past but have thankfully managed to get back on track. He’s great with our three children and always there for other people…. Most of the time down the pub on his phone. He has said that I can always talk to him if I need to but I just don’t feel like he actually gets how sad I am that my mum is no longer here….His parents are still here but it hurts how much that he would rather be down the pub with friends and to top it all off didn’t even come home on one occasion with no message at all… I really wonder do I want to be with someone who doesn’t emotionally support me after all these years together. I’m so deeply saddened that I don’t know what to do. Thank you for reading.