Cant imagine a life without my dad how can i help him and create magical memories

Firstly my dad had lived with stage 4 cancer with many years but sadly treatment is not working , he is young and im so cross with the world , why him? Why does cancer affect so many families . It jus isnt fair. He has now stopped treatment and been reffered to palliative care , is there any ideas i could do to show him how much we care and love him . I feel so helpless . No matter what age we l still need our dads i wish this was all a bad dream .

My dad is incredible funny , kind and selfless he deserves the best.

From a very worried heartbroken daughter 

Parents
  • Have all the conversations, have no regrets. Leave nothing unsaid. Tell him you love him and what you’re grateful for. Reminisce. Cry together. Laugh together. 

    It’s still the worst thing to try to get used to and your feelings mirror mine. I miss my Dad so much but felt and feel all the things you are feeling. I’m still angry at the world. 7 months later. It’s still raw. 

    Be kind to you. 

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  • Have all the conversations, have no regrets. Leave nothing unsaid. Tell him you love him and what you’re grateful for. Reminisce. Cry together. Laugh together. 

    It’s still the worst thing to try to get used to and your feelings mirror mine. I miss my Dad so much but felt and feel all the things you are feeling. I’m still angry at the world. 7 months later. It’s still raw. 

    Be kind to you. 

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