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Do you still talk to your lost loved ones?

mattcymru
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I live in an out of the way place and its just me and my Mum whos not well. I spend a lot of the day keeping her company so at night i spend a lot of time up in the early hours in the lounge where me and Dad spent so much time. I talk to him constantly and say things like  `sorry dad ` for various reasons. He would probably think im mad but its kind helps me get by. 

It is more lonely now here than ever. And if my mum goes it will be like a desert island

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    Hi mattycmyru, yes I do still talk to my mum ,usually when in the garden at crematorium. She passed in 1983. So I tell her I've brought her flowers & kids now grown,  dog left in car as not allowed here. I am sure many people do the same. This year told her might be there sooner as BC. Mostly I speak these words in my thoughts, as not to alarm others. It does us good . Hope you get out meet people & not too much of the dessert. Pip

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    Hi mattycmyru, yes I do still talk to my mum ,usually when in the garden at crematorium. She passed in 1983. So I tell her I've brought her flowers & kids now grown,  dog left in car as not allowed here. I am sure many people do the same. This year told her might be there sooner as BC. Mostly I speak these words in my thoughts, as not to alarm others. It does us good . Hope you get out meet people & not too much of the dessert. Pip

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