Hi,

my partners dad has cancer in multiple places in his body, over the last month and a half or so we have seen him get worse and worse. This is the most painful thing I've ever experienced, not only am I really close with her dad who is the most wonderful man I'm also really worried about the pain my partner is going through she has such a close and lovely relationship with him it's breaking both of us. And I'm terrified for the future for her, I don't think she'll ever be truly happy ever again and it breaks my heart she is so lovely and sweet and would call her dad most days. She is telling herself he will get better and I'm praying for a miracle but I fear that her telling herself this will make it worse if he does pass, rather than accepting what's coming and trying to process that? Can anyone give guidance on this I know everyone has a different process and I respect that I just worry about her all the time, I've not brought it up yet I don't know if I can I don't want her to lose hope it's maybe the only thing that's keeping her going.

Thank you, sorry for the long post