Loss of my Dad, I'm heartbroken

Hi, I've just lost my Dad, I'm heartbroken, he was in the hospice for the last 10 days before he passed away, watching him suffer was terrible. The cancer spread rapidly and he fought to the last day. I'm missing him terribly and feel like I how can I carry on without him. My mum is taking it bad too. I'd give everything up I have to have him here.   

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  • It's hard to see someone you love suffer and harder still for that someone to be someone who was always there for you. Always, regardless. 

    I feel the same about my dad. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him. I am the man I am today because of him.

    All that I can say is that it doesn't get any better, just different. The memories of the good times will far outweigh the recent sad times. 

    That's what helps me through. The times I worked with him, the times he had me in stitches, sometimes through working me hard, mostly through laughter. Never laughed so much as when my father was telling stories.

    I feel your sadness in my heart and wish you well.

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  • It's hard to see someone you love suffer and harder still for that someone to be someone who was always there for you. Always, regardless. 

    I feel the same about my dad. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him. I am the man I am today because of him.

    All that I can say is that it doesn't get any better, just different. The memories of the good times will far outweigh the recent sad times. 

    That's what helps me through. The times I worked with him, the times he had me in stitches, sometimes through working me hard, mostly through laughter. Never laughed so much as when my father was telling stories.

    I feel your sadness in my heart and wish you well.

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