My dad passed away a couple of weeks ago after a short fight with cancer. I'm feeling empty and it all feels surreal. It's his funeral on Friday and I'm feeling so anxious- is this normal ? Thanks Vicki
I am so sorry to hear about you losing your dad after a short fight with cancer. I have been through similar recently and felt I should reply. My stepdads funeral was last Wednesday after he passed from a short battle with mouth cancer. We got the diagnosis in April and he had several operations and was undergoing treatment but then found out it had spread to his lungs and he lived for just 2 more weeks. My heart breaks for you as it is the worst feeling.
The way you are feeling is completely normal. I felt sick to my stomach at my stepdads funeral. It all becomes a bit of a blur and I hardly remember it to be honest. I do remember breaking down when I saw other family members waiting outside, allow yourself to get upset and let it out. Be patient with yourself, there is no need to hurry in how you are feeling. Anything you feel is completely normal. Hold hands with your family members on the day and you will get through it. One thing we were able to laugh about was that my stepdad was early to his own funeral and he was always prompt and early to appointments and everything when he was here. What I'm trying to say is remember all your happy memories with your loved one and it's okay to smile at that.
Sending my love to you and your family at this horrible time and for Friday.
