Hi Vicki

I lost my dad 3 weeks ago today. His funeral was on Wednesday and I planned most of if so I was busy the entire 2 weeks leading up. The day was lovely. In fact, I dreaded the service so much that it was actually the wake I struggled with. I really felt dad not being there as he was the soul of the party. 
It was the next day that I found dark. Suddenly there was no dad to see and take care of and no funeral planning - an emptiness. But my focus is making it through a day at a time. For now, I tell myself 'ok, im not going to see dad today' and leave it at that (try to!)
feel free to message me if would like to chat anytime. Don't go through this alone. 
kim xx

Hi Vicki

I lost my dad 3 weeks ago today. His funeral was on Wednesday and I planned most of if so I was busy the entire 2 weeks leading up. The day was lovely. In fact, I dreaded the service so much that it was actually the wake I struggled with. I really felt dad not being there as he was the soul of the party. 
It was the next day that I found dark. Suddenly there was no dad to see and take care of and no funeral planning - an emptiness. But my focus is making it through a day at a time. For now, I tell myself 'ok, im not going to see dad today' and leave it at that (try to!)
feel free to message me if would like to chat anytime. Don't go through this alone. 
kim xx

Hi Kim,

Thanks for the reply - I appreciate it .. dads funeral went well... I'm back home and know what you mean - just feel flat and low - but thank you - I will messsge you xx

hope you are coping ok too xx