I was supposed to be going on holiday today to Croatia with 2 friends, but I can't face going. My mam died 8 weeks ago tommorow and I'm feeling worse each day. I don't think my friends understand as they havnt lost anyone.
I'm so sorry for your loss - 8 weeks is still very recent. Take each day as it comes and eventually some days will be a bit better than others but never feel pressured into doing stuff you don't feel up to. People say 'she'd want you to be happy' but I think she'd want you to grieve first. My sister died from NHL 5 years ago and I still get odd moments when it's like a knife twisting inside me or something reminds me and chokes me up. You take your time, my love - you'll know when you feel ready to go on holiday
I'm so sorry for your loss - 8 weeks is still very recent. Take each day as it comes and eventually some days will be a bit better than others but never feel pressured into doing stuff you don't feel up to. People say 'she'd want you to be happy' but I think she'd want you to grieve first. My sister died from NHL 5 years ago and I still get odd moments when it's like a knife twisting inside me or something reminds me and chokes me up. You take your time, my love - you'll know when you feel ready to go on holiday
