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my mum passed away

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hi all i don't even know why am posting on here really am just so sad and worried am having a breakdown my mum passed away on the 10th april from a 3year battle with overian cancer we knew she was going to die in the end as she wasn't allowed to have the operation that proberbly would have saved her life she had copd and her lungs wouldn't have been strong enough my mum was my best friend my go to person as my dad was never around now i just feel like i have nobody even tho i have all grown up girls of my own i wish i was with mum not even here any more we have to bury her next week and i feel i don't even want to go to her funeral because i don't want to say goodbye my mum was only 66 and should have had a long life ahead of her left is it normal to feel this sad and will i ever get over loosing her x

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    Hello walshy1180, so sorry for your loss, and yes, it is normal to feel the way you do.  The bond between a mother and child is the strongest bond of all, and when we lose our mothers, it is horrendous.  I can tell you that in time, you will learn to live without her.......that does NOT mean that you will get over the loss of her.  Truth is, we never completely get over the loss of those we love, but somehow we learn to live without them.  Take care mate, xx

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    Hello walshy1180, so sorry for your loss, and yes, it is normal to feel the way you do.  The bond between a mother and child is the strongest bond of all, and when we lose our mothers, it is horrendous.  I can tell you that in time, you will learn to live without her.......that does NOT mean that you will get over the loss of her.  Truth is, we never completely get over the loss of those we love, but somehow we learn to live without them.  Take care mate, xx

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