brother in law passed away

my brother in law passed away last night.he was the love of my sisters life.they had 26 wonderful years together .he was her rock,he never worried in life and always made sure she was looked after .there is a huge viod in my life now because he has gone and i cant bare the thought of my sister suffering.also my sisters daughter victoria passed away 4 months ago and one of my best friends 4 weeks after with a brain tumour and in december my other friend was diagnosed with mouth cancer and its terminal.its all coming at once and is very difficult to handle

  • A warm welcome to the forum, trader44.

    I'm sorry to hear about your loss, on behalf of everyone here at Cancer Chat, please accept our sincere condolences.

    Losing a loved one is never easy and there is no right or wrong way to experience grief. What is important though is to go easy on yourself in this process. With this in mind, I wanted to share a page from our website which covers coping with grief and I hope that can be of some help.

    Hopefully, others who can relate to your experience will come along shortly to chat with you and offer support. In the meantime feel free to write as much as you need, we're here to listen.

    All the best,

    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator