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My father passed away at 58, I’m struggling

Ljem20
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My father passed away following a very short illness. 5 weeks ago we found out he had AML and 5 weeks later he passed away. 
 

We were such a close family and we are all in so much pain. I am struggling to process the pain alongside the shock. 
 

It was all so fast and whilst we knew for a few days he would pass, I can't quite believe it has happened (although the pain reminds me of just how real it is). 
 

if anyone has been through anything similar it would be of comfort to hear people's stories and coping mechanisms as I'm truly at a loss. I am 26.

  • Hello Ljem20,

    Just wanted to say welcome to Cancer Chat and send my condelensces. You're not alone in how you're feeling and there are members on the forum who can share their experiences with you. If you need to speak someone, the Cruse bereavement helpline 0808 808 1677 might be a good place to talk and you can find more information here.

    Thinking of you at this difficult time,

    Moderator Anastasia

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    Hello I'm so sorry for your loss,it is very difficult my father passed away in front of me which was a shock also,in time it does get easier but you never forget them.I just think of the good memories I had with him and you will get the strength to carry on without him x

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