Hi there my dad died 5 weeks ago from myeloma cancer he was 63 he struggled to eat and had several blood transfusions before death we did not know about the cancer .cancer is unpredictable I thought my dad was getting better after some radiotherapy and he died in a week I then read further on death and found they tend to get better before they get worse I'm probably waffling here and not giving any advice at all but I'll just say a few words spend what time you can with him talk about his last wishes do not forget this as it's useful if he hasent got a will be sure to get it down on paper my dad did not have one and I may now loose my home and my 4 kids live in his home because intestancy rules it has to be split your parent has done well being 83 but under stable you don't want to loose him yet.also don't worry about what you have no control over as I said my dads looked fine then died you don't know when it will be!I understand the sepsis thing my dad had an infection but the cancer killed him they couldn't do much because the cancer took over and the infection was in the way of it which then made his body fail try not to be scared take it as a new path of life your dad will be in a better place no pain although it's hard to think that it's the truth you may have more time yet just take each day as it comes 

Hi there my dad died 5 weeks ago from myeloma cancer he was 63 he struggled to eat and had several blood transfusions before death we did not know about the cancer .cancer is unpredictable I thought my dad was getting better after some radiotherapy and he died in a week I then read further on death and found they tend to get better before they get worse I'm probably waffling here and not giving any advice at all but I'll just say a few words spend what time you can with him talk about his last wishes do not forget this as it's useful if he hasent got a will be sure to get it down on paper my dad did not have one and I may now loose my home and my 4 kids live in his home because intestancy rules it has to be split your parent has done well being 83 but under stable you don't want to loose him yet.also don't worry about what you have no control over as I said my dads looked fine then died you don't know when it will be!I understand the sepsis thing my dad had an infection but the cancer killed him they couldn't do much because the cancer took over and the infection was in the way of it which then made his body fail try not to be scared take it as a new path of life your dad will be in a better place no pain although it's hard to think that it's the truth you may have more time yet just take each day as it comes