Hi love, what a horrible situation to be left in limbo.  Have you got the phone number of the McMillan nurse, if you have then call and speak to them.  Or call the hospice and tell them who you are and ask to speak to someone who is caring for Mum.  Hospices can care for Cancer patients and she probably needs proper help as its all too much to cope with in your own.  The Moderators on this site may help you more and I'm sure one will be able to reply soon.  Hopefully this helps you a little bit.  Carol

Thank you so much for responding

I'm just lost, confused, does this mean that's it, how do I help but be really positive around her what can I do?

This is the thing no number to mcmillian nurse caring for her as she never got round to sending my mum her details etc and as she has only just been referred today to the hospice I can not even phone them and ask what's the situation can you be honest with me I'm just in black cloud but thank you so much

Lucy ️

Thank you so much for responding

I'm just lost, confused, does this mean that's it, how do I help but be really positive around her what can I do?

This is the thing no number to mcmillian nurse caring for her as she never got round to sending my mum her details etc and as she has only just been referred today to the hospice I can not even phone them and ask what's the situation can you be honest with me I'm just in black cloud but thank you so much

Lucy ️

If you have Mums hospital details call them tomorrow ans ask for the phone number of her nurse. Explain what has happened and then call her. The are very busy so leave a name and number to call back but make sure to say who you are and Mums name. I can't help with how I'll Mum is but they want ll be honest with you. Take care and try to get some rest. Carol 

Thank you very much I will try and do that

Sorry was that meant to say they will be honest with us??

Hope your OK also sending hugs

Thank you for your kindness of replying to me 

Lucy ️

Sorry. Yes honest. Let' me know how it goes. X