Lost

Hi i feel like we are different people it seems like even at Xmas which was only a few weeks ago we were 2 completely different people this has changed everything we planned for our future I feel like I can't cope I need so strength to look after husband feel like we will never be that couple anymore the couple that laughed all the time enjoyed our grandson I'm so scared for the future nothing seems important now only looking after my husband I wake up in the morning for a split second I feel like everything is normal then it hits me. I don't sleep much I just sit watching him sleep 

  • Thankyou for your kind postive words 

  • Hi,I'm sorry this is happening to you, I myself am looking after my husband and like you I wake up thinking this is all a bad dream then it hits me! Friends have been great etc but no one really knows what goes on in my head,I can only offer support and some understanding of the situation,every day is different and sometimes I manage better,I feel quite alone as the world goes on and I feel mine has stopped,but you have to keep strong safe and positive x we will get there 

  • Hi I'm so sorry for you and your husband to. It is really difficult trying to explain how you feel to family because they are going through it to. I don't want to burden them or look selfish if you know what I mean it sounds like we in the same boat let's stick together and fight this battle you can message me anytime if you want to chat thankyou take care m x