My partner has kidney cancer but its eaten away at his right pelvis so not much of that left its in his spine and some ribs he does need a scan but CANNOT get out of bed,we have the carer's in now just to change his nappy as i call it but its a pad,he was given 2.5 years and that was April 2019 but has gone down hill is now bedridden and in continent,ive just lost my mum to lung cancer on 26th August 2019 so dreading anniversary of her but my question is,cos we've got carer's in does it mean his time is limited and what have i got to look forward to .