Lung cancer stage 3B

Been such a stressfull 3months. My partner went for a normal cheakup. Dok noticed his fingers ..(clubbing) at the tips ...after a PCT scan ..It was confirmed 53mm 9mm 9mm lumps in his lungs..chemo started 4weeks ago..I've noticed a big change an he is more tired an dizzy an sometimes a bit weak.. but takes a lot of medication to counteract the side effects..The day before the first dose of chemo was so scary no one could go along with him as of covid..But I was amazed at how well he reacted you read do much bad things on Google.. especially about chemo.. my partner as good days an bad..the good days are a blessing.. this is only a treatment not a cure to prelong life it's hard at 39.. so much we had planned. He as another scan in 3 weeks I just hope one nasty little lump as shurnk?? ... After much research from books an more books..not meny ppl will tell you cancer feeds of suger ..No nurse as told my partner this which I find uneducated. But the  drinks of the dok are full of suger...But to be used as Food ...I'm confused.?.. I've never asked a forum if any one is suffering hard times.. I'm trying to be strong an possative but that's hard to.. godbless.. stay safe 

  • bless you i totally understand what you are going through my husband has squamous cell carcinoma which has gone to his lungs he too is only on pallative treatment:( he is 37 and we have just had a baby it's heartbreaking to watch them go through it all he has finished his chemotherapy and just had his scan back but the cancer has grown :( not what we expected so he is now going onto immunotherapy fingers crossed this helps x

  • Bless kezza ..sorry to read it's heartbreaking!. Immunotherapy hope it helps my fingers are crossed for you an you family.

    Chemo was the only option. No immunotherapy as he won't react it's a rare cancer . I can't even spell it ..what a bad year this started out to be.. my family say I'm in a bad mood..we haven't spoke for 3months. Ppl say I'm pushing ppl away..maybe I am but I don't mean to.. I help my partner as much as I can I pray   after chemo maybe they will be another treatment available. Hate how there is no cure just a treatment.. that's hard to think about. The side effects arn't as bad as he expected. So day by day we take it. Support of family would be good. But in this case it's hards to say an ask the right things. Feels like there just backing away from me..alone scared an sick of not talking about it I could scream from the roof tops. in fact I could rip the roof tops off...the way I feel...this must be normal...everyday I cry everyday is the same nightmare can't sleep propley ..wake up feeling back in a dream tears flow as I Wright this ...I've needed to speake about this do much ...kezza I wish you luck an be safe thank you ... Bless x

  • oh bless your heart i know how hard it is and i often have breakdowns it is the hardest journey and i cant imagine how they are feeling. if you want to chat im always here and its hard to get the support because they are not going through it they expect you to be happy and upbeat all the time. its good to explain yourself to them of how your feeling xx

  • Hi Possvibes and welcome to the Cancer Chat community.

    There’s no evidence that following a “sugar-free” diet lowers the risk of getting cancer, or boosts the chances of surviving if you are diagnosed. We have more information about this on our website here and here but if you'd like to discuss this or your partner's situation with one of our cancer nurses then you can give them a call on 0808 800 4040. Their phone lines are open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m.

    I hope this helps.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Suger is a deffo no no cancer feeds of suger I'm I wrong?? 

  • Hi there

    Recent stories circulating on the internet and media have led many people to think that 'sugar feeds cancer'. The websites sharing this information are very convincing and suggest that it comes from upstanding doctors at prestigious institutions. No one can blame you for believing sugar is linked to cancer. There are more than one million websites capitalizing on this fear and virtually none offering the science.

    But it is nothing more than an urban myth, the result of misunderstood and distorted science. We would always advocate a healthy diet and so there is no harm in cutting down on sugary snacks and drinks but this isn't a cure for cancer. The links Steph has provided will give you more information about this and I hope that reassures you.

    Regards

    Moderator Sarah

  • Thank you.  I did not mean it was a cure not all ppl can cut suger completely out there diet..it's very hard.. but my partner has slowly cut suger from tea ect..  hes still as few treats. But his intake of suger was high an cutting it down an making his deit more suger less can't do any harm ...He also thinks this way. Suger to my partner is like poison he says god love him..  Thank you for all your kind words an advice very much appreciated. Stay safe keep smiling