Thankyou so much for your reply I'm so sorry about your daughter it's a terrible thing to go through. 
I lost my dad to cancer in Feb but he was in the hospice  did you have your daughter at home 

how are you coping. I really do feel for you. Xx

Hi

thank you for replying. Sorry to hear about your Dad. You are on a very difficult road with your mum, but I don’t need to tell you that do I.

My daughter lived approx 190 miles away from me, so I used to do the round trip once a week and sometimes I stayed over. In the last few weeks she would cry out God help me and her husband didn’t know what to do, nor did I, but I wondered if she was in pain, so we gave her pain relief and she used to settle down to sleep, you never know if you are doing the right thing or not.

stay strong and be kind to yourself. 

That must of been terrible. I can't imagine what that was like 

mum today has gone rapidly down hill not eating anything and now no drink. She just says good night and off to sleep. She also feels clammy  do you think the end is coming x