Partner Recently Diagnosed

Hi,

I am new to all of this, so sorry if this doesn't make sense.   To cut a long story short, my partner was diagnosed with a brain tumour 2 weeks ago which was initially thought to be a primary cancer.  He has since had a biopsy of some enlarged lymph nodes in his chest which we have  been told is likely to be small cell lung cancer, but won't be confirmed until early next week.  He will be starting intensive whole brain radiotherapy for 5 days this coming week for what has now been confirmed as brain mets and also mets o  his brain lining..

I just wondered whether anyone else had been in a similar situation.  I'm sure I'm not the only one, but everything seems uncertain at the moment and my partner has been told the radiotherapy may kill him anyway due to the position of the brain tumour which is on his cerebellum.  I don't really know how I can best support him, as there is so much going on at the moment and it's like a rollercoaster.  Any advice would be appreciated  please.  

Thanks for listening to my waffling.

xx

  • Hello Louca and welcome to the forum. 
    I was really sorry to hear about everything that is happening for you and your partner at the moment. It sounds like an incredibly difficult time and as you say very much like a rollercoaster. 

    Whilst I'm not sure that we have any members here with the same diagnosis at the moment I'm sure that there will be people who understand how difficult the uncertainty of things is. 

    I'm not sure if you've come across The Brain Tumour charity but I wanted to signpost you towards them as well. I know that they have an online community and you may find that you're able to connect with others for support there as well. 

    We also have a team of nurses here at Cancer Research and if you'd like to speak to them at any point you're welcome to call them for some support and advice. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    I do hope that your partners treatment this week goes smoothly. Let us know how you're both getting on if you're able to. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator