Hi misha, you don't say where his cancer is, that can make a difference with what treatment and if he will be ill, its not just the patient who suffers but all the family. You will manage OK it's surprising how people do, it's like a natural instinct. Mainly just be there for him.... Best wishes.... Billy 

Thanks for your reply Billy. I think it's just the fear of the unknown. My partner has cancer of the gallbladder and liver and we've been told it isn't cureable but we are hoping the chemo helps. You yourself have a lot going on with your own diagnosis and your caring role too. I hope you have good support around you as I do from family and friends. Thank you again for replying. I appreciate it.