My best friend had cervical cancer that has spread.. She has had chemotherapy twice and radiotherapy and operations.. After a long long battle she has been told (today) that she has a few months to Live.. She has been full of hope and ideas on how to beat this but today after being told with such conviction she now knows and so do i that she doesn't have long.. I have broke my heart and I will continue to do so but i need help.. I need to know what to say and do to help.. She said 'please look after my kids and promise they will be looked after' This goes without saying.. What I'm wondering is what I do from here.. Do I go ahead and buy the journal of memories that she fills in so her kids have all the info about her? Do I go ahead and get a hand cast of her and her husband and kids on order? Do I offer to take some professional pics of them all together? Do I suggest she does she video messages, letters and life lessons down on paper for her kids? Or is this all stupid? This is what I would do but I'm weird!! I don't have long to fix anything I might do wrong so I need to get it right.. Any help would be so appreciated xxx