Hello Fantapants
Welcome to the forum although I'm very sorry to hear about the news that you and your wife were goven by the Consultant earlier this week. I'm sure it's been a very difficult few days and I'm not surprised that you're feeling scared about everything. 

I wonder if it might help for you to talk things through with one of our team of nurses. I'm sure that they will be able to offer some advice and support. You can call them on 0808 800 4040 (Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm). 

I hope that some of our members will post soon to say Hello and share some words of support. Please know that you're not alone and you're welcome to post here to ask questions, chat to others or simply to offload your thoughts and feelings. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator

Hi Fantapants

I'm sorry to hear about what your wife has been going through. This must have come as a shock and be a difficult time.

What does her specialist say is the next step? Just because it has spread does not mean that there are not options available for her.

She should also have a specialist nurse who is easily contactable to give you all some support. Try not to let your mind to carry away with worries and 'worst case scenarios'. It soudns like you need more information about the future.

Feel free to DM if you need to offload

Elsie