After being admitted to hospital(after a lot of persuasion) on Saturday with a kidney infection the kidney infection turned into possible kidney stones... On Tuesday we got the news that it was actually cervical cancer... i havent been able to see her yet cus of work, childcare etc but i'm seeeing her on Sunday. Last night she told me that it was incurable and inoperable. Shes 35. Her kidneys were actually failing on Saturday due to the cancer...

Shes stage 2 but something else was in stage 4 but i'm not really sure.. i think aggression wise its stage 2.. I've never had to really deal with cancer in my life before, so this is such a shock... Ive been reading up on as much as i can, and reading survival stories has helped massively.. 

I guess what i'm asking is, when the doctors say its incurable and inoperable, what does that really mean? Has anyone else had to face that diagnosis before? 

Im trying to stay as positive as i can for her, and i wanna be there as much as i can.. but i dont want to overstep boundaries.. whats too much? whats not enough? 

So many questions.... any help and/or advice would be greatly recieved x