Hi all,

After testing in mod Nov my dad has been diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer stage IV, a biopsy was done and on Dec 6 the oncologist met him and said across the desk that he wouldn't be able for chemotherapy

My dad is 77.

We have taken him home and looked after him for past 9 days looking after pain management with oxycotin and oxynorm etc.

I need some advice as to what to expect, to me he has deteriorated much since he came home, yes he is weak and in some pain at times. 

My mother is 72 and trying to look after him. I live 74 miles away so up and down as often as I can

Any advice is welcome