Hi, i randomly found this post i made whilst in a crisis in the middle of the night when i was 16,

 i honestly forgot i had made this post until this week when it randomly popped into my head as my family were discussing this situation, i was just looking at the replies and it means so much to me that people replied and cared enough to give advice i wish i had seen this in 2019! there was so much going on at the time as the whole diagnosis happened at christmas that i didnt have time to check my phone much

 Just to update , the doctors had mistakenly told us that the cancer had spread to the bones when this wasnt the case (found this out feb 2020) , his cancer had spread to his lymphnodes but not the bones- he had treatments in 2020 and 2021 and he is doing alot better, Early 2020 was very hard for me because of this diagnosis but i spent alot of time with family to help support my dad. im happy i was able to see that there was people here to support me :)

weve been told the cancer will probably make a return at some point ,but its best to not think about it too much , i hope everything is going well with you and thank you so much for the responce i wish i had seen this earleir but wanted to give you an update