Hi maudular,.. Could you have a bit of time off work, ask your boss explain why, when you go home can someone go with you to see if it makes any difference to his attitude, or see about carers for him so you both have a bit of space i know it's not perfect but you've both got to find some safe ground, does he do his own meals and things or is that your job things like that can make a difference,, hope I've given you some ideas. Good luck... Billy 

Hi Maureen been trying to get in touch with you had to reset my phone lost everything, I've sent friend request,. Please let me know your OK love..... Billy 

Hi, you poor thing, I know what you are going through, my husband was having treatment, he was also so nasty to me, no one else, just seem to take it out on me ( they say, they always take it out of the one closest to them) I would suggest, you just keep calm, hopefully he will come to his senses and seek more treatment and help.. it's so hard for us, we have to keep going, bills to pay etc, good luck to you