Unfair

Hi my wife has stage 4 womb cancer she is now in year five she as given 4 years she is a fighter but gets so tired I am so frightened of losing her and to top it all I have got skin cancer not serious and it’s treatable so I’m  lucky I want my wife to get better but I know it’s not going happen I look ahead saying oh we will do this amd next year we will take our grandson to legoland she says we will see I booked a show next April got good tickets she love strictly and this is a show staring Kevin Clifton her favourite she she that’s lovely but if I’m not here you must promise me you go and take our son I want to take her I think she is trying to tell me what I don’t want to hear she spends most of her time in bed am I wrong in planing ahead have I got my head in the sand cancer is so unfair do I sound mad or do people get a feeling the end is not far way I am so worried 

  • Hi there ...

    And welcome ... your doing amazing ... we all need a dream .. weather they come along or not ... I've booked Florida with my granddaughter and family next Feb.. it was booked early this year ... I had a grade 3 breast cancer... and masectomy in July 2017 ... so didn't know if I'd see that xmas even .. but hay ho .. I'll either be on that holiday .. or ill be watching them from up there ... fingers crossed for the one thing left on my bucket list ... 

    If I make it , I'll get a new dream to look forward too .. so no don't you worry .. you live in the day .. make plans ... coz no one healthy or sick knows if they'll have tomorrow... every day we get is a bonus .. every day make a memory to keep ... big or small ... and I'm sure if you tell them about your wife , they'll see she gets her wish and a good seat ... it's amazing how lovely people can be ... go on write from your heart .. never give up till you get a good reply ...

    Chrissie x 

  • Hi Christie thank you for your response to be honest I just want to shot out at some one any one your kind words mean a lot sorry for what you are going through it’s hell isnt it ? Hope ou have your holiday God bless 

    Phil x