Hi, I hope it is ok to post here.. my father is very poorly at the minute. He has recently been placed back on chemotherapy after the immunotherapy stopped working, they found the cancer had spread to nearby nodes. I found out today (unknown to him) his cancer has further spread, this is a 3rd new area that I know of and started off from a secondary cancer. I'm hurt that I wasn't made aware of it till now, we are a small and close family.. perhaps my parents are trying to protect me? Should I respect him or should I ask more questions? and at the same time, I'm scared to ask. I feel he is trying to push through each day, taking his mind off it with work, hobbies, DIY ect when he is well enough... this stops me asking because I don't want him to think I'm setting out reminders of his reality. I'm hurting inside but having to remain a pillar for my mother, my husband is there for me but I feel if I start crumbling, I wont stop. I have no clue of what stages or how long ect.. it really is a hard and confusing time.
G. x
