my little brother of 23 is dying of cancer and I have tried for so long to be strong and block out the feelings but I’m breaking.
He was diagnosed at 16 and honestly I really did believe he would beat it and even up to a few weeks ago, even when the doctor said he would pass away soon, I still didn’t believe it, but now it’s sunken in and he is so weak and fragile and knowing that he will pass away makes me physically sick, I feel extremely depressed and also guilty for even writing this because it’s him who has the cancer, I shouldn’t complain about how I feel but I just don’t know what to do or say. And I don’t want to feel like this because it’s affecting my daily life, I feel so sorry for him, He is the kindest person I have ever known and extremely mature for his age. He is an amazing little brother and I wish that i could take his cancer for him. He doesn’t deserve this horrible disease.
Any advice about how I can deal with this better?