Hi, im just at a loss right now, im 34 and I don't know who to speak too. My mum was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer in March last year, we soon discovered she had secondary bone cancer in her pelvic, she started chemotherapy and after a good few months, she decided to stop treatment as it didnt agree with her. I totally respected her wish and will support her all the way. This week she's found lumps on head, and had a MRI to find out it had spread to her spine, she has now been referred to a hospice. My dad was diagnosed last September with stage 4 lung cancer, he also started treatment but unfortunately we've just found out it hasn't been working and the tumor had grown and now has taken over his whole lung. He looking very thin and frail with a blue tint, im so scared hes not gonna be around for much longer, I not sure really where im going with this but I just needed to tell someone. It so hard to cope right now, with both parents going down hill pretty fast, thank you for listening.