Hello, firstly let me say sorry you find yourself on here. Then let me tell you how much support there will be on here for both you and your wife ( should she seek it) 

There are many ladies here who are goi g through exactly what your wife is going through so I know you will get replies to your thread. I myself had my breast cancer diagnosis a few days before Christmas, my husband has been my rock and we both can talk openly about everything that is happening....I hope you can too. I suppose we all cope in our different ways, there will be The highs and The lows , but what I can say is this forum has saved my sanity, I often read out some of the posts to my husband .....

I will look out for your future posts and no questions is a silly one....as a whole one of us here will be able to offer something....even if it's just to say....it's ok....your normal and your not going mad.....take care xxx