Lost partner has cancer

So today we was told they got the cancer the first and second one thought that was good news but then the doctors say but you will need radiotherapy every week day for 6 week my heart sunk couldn't keep the tears from falling my hubby looks lost then he has to see dentist they take few teeth out hubby not happy so in last month he's had 2 operations 2 needle biopsy 2 scans or pet scans lots of bloods taken and he's been fine untill now and he says he's had enough is it ever going to stop I feel lost don't no what to do or say to help i no all i can do is be therex

  • Yep. You are doing the best thing ever by being there for him, and modern treatments might seem harsh but I am sure they do a good job. Sometimes things seem so bad when they all come together, but maybe things will improve by next month? Crossed fingers for you both, and I hope all feels better soon.

    Take care of yourselves, and especially take care of yourself if you are helping him cos it is horrible having cancer and the emotional toll it takes can be hard to cope with on your own. Please accept help and seek it whenever you need to.

    All the very best,

    Mary