Hello. My dad is beginning a 9 week cycle of chemotherapy on Wednesday before he undergoes a full bladder removal.
i wanted to know how the chemo will affect him and how I can support him and my mum in the best way possible
Hello. My dad is beginning a 9 week cycle of chemotherapy on Wednesday before he undergoes a full bladder removal.
i wanted to know how the chemo will affect him and how I can support him and my mum in the best way possible
What river56 said - it depends on the chemo drugs used and the dose.
I felt great the day after each treatment (big dose of steroids!) then gradually felt worse over the next five days until I had one day each cycle when I could hardly function. I then felt better each day until by the end of each 20 day cycle, I felt pretty normal.
Fortunately, I only had four cycles so I always knew there was an end in sight.
The chemo nurses and the oncologist will do everything in their power to lessen the side effects. Make sure your dad tells them everything he has experienced - they won't be able to get rid of effects entirely, but they can make them less unpleasant.
Don't let him be stoic, or think that he's making a fuss by saying how he feels - they need to know, and will adjust dosage etc accordingly!
The best way for you to help is to do practical things to take the pressure off your parents. I was lucky that my partner took over everything, including all the cooking, washing etc. Some days I felt well enough to do it, others I didn't - knowing that there was back up helped massively.
Good luck to your dad, I hope his treatment is short and successful!