Hi robinson3. Welcome to our forum.  

We're actually based in the UK, but we do have a few members from other countries, and you're welcome to any help and support we can give. However, it does mean that we don't really understand the details of US health insurance, social security, etc. 

Apart from a couple of nurses who keep UK office hours, we're not medical people here. We're mainly cancer sufferers and carers. The names of the treatments you mention mean nothing to me, but it's possible that others here will have experience of them and can chip in. 

This is obviously a worrying time for you, but it sounds like your husband getting the best medical care. Clearly, having to go back to work and leave him alone is going to be difficult. I'm sure others here have faced similar difficulties and perhaps someone will be able to offer some practical ideas to help you.

If you just want to talk, cry, or vent your anger then we're here. 

Thank you RP.  I do have emotional support from family and friends. The hands on care is really over their head.  It's hard for everyone because he's a big guy and the amount of medications he takes.

I'm hoping he gets stronger with the treatments. If not I can hire a Home Health Aide. Trying to be positive and problem solve...

How have you been feeling? 

Thank you for your support telemando.

It feels good to vent

Hello robinson3.  So sorry about your difficulties. Whilst I also am not conversant with US medical insurance and financial support systems I am sure that the problems are basically similar to those experienced  here in your situation, i.e. someone needs to keep the money coming in at the same time doing their best to care for their loved one. It seems to me that unless you have a rich family this kind of problem must arise quite often and you really have enough stress on your plate.