I currently have an uncle with prostate cancer, brother in law with lung cancer, and now my mum has very probably got lung cancer too as she has lost her voice and has a huge lump of something in her lung. I have no idea what to do , where to go, as I live many miles away from them. I'm a bit lost what I can do. I'm stuck. Of course my first thought was to try Google for information, but I'm no doctor and so have no facility to understand what any of it actually means and it all sounds scary. I need to find some actual information designed for an idiot (me). How best can I help them? They are all stubborn, strong, fit people. Where to begin?