Hello I am in the same boat as you all. My mum was diagnosed with cancer before xmas this year. Before that point she had lost her voice for months and had lost her appetite. The doctors couldn't find the primary cancer until today and now we know it's lung. She has been given weeks to live but has stopped eating and drinking completely so we don't think it will be long. She also says she has no pain which seems to baffle the doctors as she has a lot of cancer in her spine too. To add insult to injury, she also had a mental health breakdown in January whilst we were waiting for results and was diagnosed with severe depressed and psychosis. No medication has helped her mental state. She is getting more and more depressed and distant by the hour and over the past few days she has stopped talking at all. It's really hard to say bye to someone who you feel has already left. Make sure you treasure every moment you have with her whilst you can xxx