Going out of my mind!

My partner was diagnosed in August with bowel cancer stage 4... It's spread to his liver & lungs..

He is currently having chemotherapy and the side affects have been quite harsh so they have reduced his treatment by 20%... 

Has this been the case for anyone else?

is this normal or is this going to be a gradual reduction then will they stop?

any advice would be great

thank you Kerry x

  • Hi Kerry Sorry to hear about your partner. Different cancer but stage 4 I had to have my chemo reduced slightly because of the side effects , mainly severe pains in my legs and joints. I did manage the rest of the treatment without reduction. Also the frequency of treatment is different and this can effect how he is feeling. Everyone is different if your partner can manage the present dose they probably won't reduce it. If he is still having problems then they will review his situation. Write your concerns down and next time he sees the Doctor ask. There is no such thing as a stupid question. Personally I believe the more you know the better but not everyone shares that view. River
  • Hi Kerry

    How old is your partner?

  • Hello Kerry, 

    So sorry to hear about your partner. 

    My dad was diagnosed in April 2015 with stage 4 incurable bowel cancer which has spread to his lungs and liver. So nearly 2 years ago. He's been having palliative chemotherapy. It is normal for the doctors to reduce the dose of chemo if it helps him through it. Although my dad hasn't yet had his reduced, they've offered to do so if it ever becomes a bit too much. No I wouldn't say it'd be a gradual reduction. It depends on many factors and how well your partner can cope with the chemo. They may even move him onto a different one if they feel his current one isn't ideal. The best person to ask is your partners doctor or macmillan nurse if he's been given one. But yes it is normal to reduce chemo as some find it too much to handle.