Hi Sasha and welcome to Cancer Chat. 

I'm sorry that your mum was diagnosed with extensive small cell lung cancer in September that has spread to her bones, bladder and pancreas and that the palliative chemo wasn't able to help.

I was just looking through the forum and have found two members that may be able to help you at this time. Their names are [@traceyc]‍ and [@tracypino9]‍ and they are in similar situation with their husband and mum so they will definitely know how you are feeling and what you are going through at the moment. Now I've tagged them in this post I'm sure they will pop by soon to offer you their support and share their experiences with you.

Best wishes to you and your mum,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator 

Sasha - my husband has NSCLC stage 4 but is on a targeted therapy - he is forunatly doing really well at presend but i am always in a panic and worry about him and the drug not working. I am now getting counselling and this helps - and i have used the penny brohen centre for support. i try and live for the day with Daryl - and we are enjoying what we can - i hope you have support. Happy to link in with you as you need Much love to you and your mum xxx