We have been told by the hospice to cherish the next few days. Iv been with her all day and she doesn't know who I am unless she really thinks about it. I'm about to pick my baby boy up from nursery and take him to see her. 

I'm so exhausted and have no energy in me but I keep a brave face and some sunglasses on just incase. 

I keep thinking of the future and can't bare the fact that one day this will all be a memory nothing else!! I don't want to fave Christmas and birthdays and all the firsts with my son that could potentially be the firsts without her.

My son is my rock and without him I would have given up a long time ago. 

The amount of times we have been given misdiagnosis or false hope is ridiculous and even now I still cling onto the hope I'll wake up and this will all be back to normal.....

I suspect many of us on here have been through what you are sadly facing Mimi, I too was so wcared when my wifeslipped away in June.

There are no magic words, just do want your Mum would want and what you want. There is no right or wrong, but I beleive you will be grateful you were there later on..

I wasn't, as my wife wasn't expected to pass away for another week, and I have so many regrets I missed it by 2 hours.

This is just my view, but as I said, there are no right ways. You will get the strength when you need it.

I wish you every luck.

HI mimi26 hope you all ok take care .