My husband was told he's got terminal cancer

Well I would like to say that it's heard to talk about it 

to my husband as he is verry independent and dosent 

Want me to worry about him he was told that he had got 12 to 18 months but no garanty.He has already done 12 months so we are both a bit anxious about

talkin it to each other I feel verry gillty for leaving him alone 

when I need to do things for myself and feel very frustrated to is there any one how feels the same way that I can chat to about how I feel as it is verry lonely not knowing who to talk about it to 

  • Hello. Mt partner got diagnosed with lung cancer in July 2014 the doc sd he was terminally ill an given 5 mths to live. (Too ill to recieve Keemo) months past and ths time came for his predicted departure. I pushed 4 another scan to check on progression.scan was donw 4 days later call off Mcmillan its a miracle it wasn t cancer just fluid on his lungs

    2 year's later may  after a montj on C7 Blackburn  another MRI wS done it was confirmed yesterday he has lung cancer.i think he had it all along. I have never seen any one deteriorate so much in a month! DEVASTATING!  HE no longer watcges tv hardly speaks and is in another world.I try to talk to him but hr has n t the energy to speak 

    I run around all day to hos every need and i like u feel guiltily if  not with him fot an hour i have two toung girls too and feel guilty as i can t spend time with them neither im shattered evert day. Irs hard mentally and psychically xxx

     

  • Ps guilt must be normal  as i feel i need to be there 100/. Of the tim.  and then i feel guilty on my kids and then i realise if i m not well  howcan i care for everyone? ??? Time out is good Maria xx