Hi I have been reading some of the posts on this forum and it seems like a very supportive place to post. My Dad was diagnosed with bladder cancer October last year and had surgery to remove the tumours.  We were told they were high grade but hadn't yet spread beyond the bladder. Fast forward to March and he started feeling really unwell. He went to the doctors and was diagnosed with liver secondaries. He's has gone downhill so fast, only a few weeks ago he was still at work and now he spends most of the day in bed. He has completed one round of chemo but we're hoping he will be well enough to continue treatment. I'm so sad I'm Getting married in November and he won't be around to walk me up the aisle. All the things we used to do together we can't do anymore and I struggle seeing him look so poorly. It's so hard. I'm not really sure how I will cope when he goes, he's always been there for me and has been a huge part of my life.