Caley, I do understand what you are going through.  It is a very difficult time for you.  My husband is elderly and has had a full and productive life.  I get the impression yours is younger which is sadder to face

My husband also has terminal cancer (Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma).  He could not handle Chemo, so it is now just a wait and watch situation with Hospice care.  I hope you have family or friends that can help you.

~ Joyce in Pennsylvania, USA

hi  im in the same position as you my husband of 4 years was diagnosed last year , then had all clear few months later after chemo  but sadly  a few months ago we were told it was back with a vengance  and it is now terminal tho he is undergoing chemo we havnt been given a time limit thank goodness , anytime you want to chat plz messgae me ...donna x 

Hi donna thanks for your message.  Hubby is 63 and we've been married 42 yrs.  Unfortunately he is now spending most of his time sleeping.  When he is awake he can be quite confused but at other times he seems ok. Time is running out so every day is precious.  Please keep in touch and let me know how your husband is.  Caley x

Hi PAgrandma, Husband is 63 and was diagnosed just after Christmas last year.  We have 3 grownup children and we have good friends who do anything they can to help.  Good to talk to others who understand.  Time is runnung out so every day a blessing. Take care, Caley x

Caley My husband is 84 and we've been married for 54 years.  He started being ill this recent January and has deteriorated badly almost day to day..  His symptoms sound VERY much like your husband's.....sleep most of the time, and when awake he's confused.  We are now on Hospice care.

Hi PAgrandma, symptoms do seem to be the same.  Hospice nurse comes once a week and district nurse starting to make regular visits.  Not easy, Thinking of you both.  Caley xx