My dad was diagnosed with throat cancer for the second time on 21st October we were told he had a few weeks to live and that he wouldn't be here for Xmas I obviously took time off work to care for him. Long story short he's still with us I am still off work because if I go back they will put him in a home and that's not happening basically I feel totally trapped and lost no idea when I will get back to work and my family beginning to struggle had go cancel family holiday as can't leave him for a week my life is totally on hold and the oy way out of it is to lose my dad
