I'm only 17 and I'm going to lose someone so important


My gran is 70, they found a tumor in her throat which we have now discovered is cancerous and the cancer in her esophagus has spread to her liver and her lungs. She had ovarian cancer 17 years ago but beat it. How long can I expect to have her for? Anyone please help, any estimates help me
 

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  • I'm so sorry to hear that! For my gran its terminal, they're going to remove the tumour but she may not even have chemo, it's up to her whether or not she will have chemo because it will not save her life it may only give her some more time. I just want to know how long I have because I know it won't be too long that I have with her because it's spread from her esophagus to her lungs and her liver (two vital organs) Thanks X

  • Caitlin, I am so sorry to hear your news, nan's are so important, aren't they!  

    I would just say don't concentrate on how long - everyone is different and doctors rarely give you a time limit.  Just concentrate on enjoying being with your nan and make some lovely memories with her.  I have terminal cancer and my 7 grandchildren bring me the greatest joy.  I am sure your nan feels this about you, Caitlin.  Feel free to come and talk to us anytime. x